When you’re at a party, in class, or walking around campus, and see girls that look amazingly hot, what are you thinking? We know what you’re thinking, but the real question is how are you ever get with them. The odds are they are upperclassmen, and have no interest in hooking up with freshmen. Simply put, the only chance you have is to convince them that you’re not a freshman.
If you’re at a party and see a group of hot girls, here’s your gameplan:
1) Single out your prey. Inless you look like Taylor Lautner, don’t go for the hottest girl in the party-at least not freshman year. Girls who are by themselves are the easiest, but hot girls by themselves at a party doesn’t happen to often. So get a wingman, and find 2 hot girls who are by themselves.
2) Move in. The only way this works is if you’re confidant and act like you belong. Most freshmen don’t act like they belong, and girls can instantly sense this. Smile, make solid eye contact, don’t pull out your phone and text, and make sure to lighten things up with some jokes. If things are going smoothly don’t be afraid to throw in some mild sexual humor, because after all you are at a party and people are drunk, odds are the girls will like it as long as its not too dirty.
3) From here its all on you. Spit your game, and if things go well ask them to dance. (You have a higher chance of hooking up with an upperclassmen girl by talking to her first, instead of finding her on the dance floor.)
4) After the dance floor talk to them some more, work your game, and then eventually ask them to go get some late night food or something. What you can’t do is take them back to your dorm. If you begin walking to the dorms, they’ll call you out on being a freshman and ditch you on the spot. Get creative and find an excuse to go back to her place instead.
For the most part hooking up with upperclassmen girls is all on you, but again we can’t stress enough that you have to look confidant and not like a freshman, as we detail here. This concept can also be applied for freshman girls, who are going to be trying to get with upperclassmen guys and won’t want freshman looking guys. Best of luck to you with the ladies!